A Wolf Remembered: Story of Medal of Honor Recipient Sergeant Major Jon Cavaiani

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JON ROBERT CAVAIANI
A WOLF REMEMBERED

John Siegfried and Dr. Michael B. Evers

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This book is about Jon Cavaiani, the Resilient and Uncompromising Wolf who stayed with his Pack, stared the Leviathan directly in the face, and who after his service, never dropped out and never quit. It’s a story about a great man who, despite incredible trials and challenges, used his many personal traumas to positively impact so many lives.

Jon Cavaiani was proud of his heritage, despite being left by his parents to the charge of an Italian farmer, moving to California from England. The lessons learned from his adoptive father, Ugo, and the hard work on the family farm as a young boy, revealed themselves later in life. Those acquired attributes would serve him well, and indeed may have saved his life. In Vietnam, he had a keen sense of duty, and proved that, as attributed to poet Dorothy Parker, “Courage is fear that has said its prayers.”

Jon would enlist in the Army at 26 years old, initially rejected due to an allergy malady from bee stings, would convince the doctor “he wanted in,” and successfully breezed through Special Forces training. Assigned to MEDCAP (Medical Civic Actions Programs), it was a unit employed to continue the “Vietnamization” program, as well as providing outpatient care for the South’s civilians living in rural areas. Cavaiani was known to the villagers as “Bac Si Jon” (Doctor Jon), and the NVA who would announce it in the jungle because of the price on his head.

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Read his citation. As with all recipients of the Medal of Honor, these awardees’ actions tough to swallow. Be it Divine intervention, or a miracle, they were ordinary men, doing extraordinary things, under extraordinary circumstances. Refusing to leave before all his men were on choppers, SSG Cavaiani remained on the hill, after insuring the safety of his platoon. Sgt. John Jones and his highly respected Montagnard “little people” remained to defend Hill 950: Once Hickory Hill was overrun, Jones was killed and Jon was unable to retrieve his friend. Using his SERE training (Survival, Escape, Resistance and Evasion), he evaded the NVA for 11 days. Jon was considered MIA and thought dead, and was awarded the Medal of Honor before he was shipped home March 1973 with his POW brethren. Captain Mike McGrath (USN-POW) told me all Army soldiers were labeled “lost sheep,” as there was no contact among the others POW’s while Jon was in captivity for 21 months.

Jon, the “Quiet Professional,” favored a discussion about the person(s) he was with, rather than about himself. He was extremely humble. His scars were only known to his closest brethren. He was endeared, respected, and beloved by those who crossed his path. To quote Mike Wallace, who knew Jon for almost 25 years, the SgtMaj was not only a hero, but a “Renaissance Man.” The Sergeant Major amassed a cadre of unrelated kinfolk throughout the USA.

While training younger SF forces, he never explained, but taught, trained, and inspired his men. The SgtMaj Commanded Delta Force before retiring in 1990. As well as becoming an expert Chef, a constant help to Veterans, and an unquestioned role model for all who met him. Because of his exposure to Agent Orange in The Poison Garden of Vietnam, he acquired MDS (Myelodysplastic Syndrome), a presumptive blood-borne disease that affects your bone marrow. Even through his challenging treatments, blood transfusions, and travel from California (Stanford University Hospital) to University of Penn in Philly, he never lost his mission to help people. His wife, Barbara, was his greatest cheerleader and loyal aid who saved his life during a particularly dark period.

Jon became the yardstick for dealing with PTS and his medical condition, never relenting. On 29 July 2014, Jon joined his adopted son from Vietnam who was killed, along with all 22 orphans and 6 monks whose orphanage he both built, and cared for. Barb passed away in April 2021.

SgtMaj Jon Cavaiani continues to live on in our memories.

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FOREWORD

A Wolf Remembered reveals how a true American Hero, Jon Robert “Bobby” Cavaiani, confronted and overcame the challenges of being an orphaned child; the horror and fog of war as a driven, determined professional Special Forces non-commissioned officer; brutal existence as a Prisoner of War; the suffering and debilitating effects of PTSD; and finally, an ugly battle with Agent Orange. Jon’s leadership and concern for his troops, U. S. and indigenous, was the backbone of his existence. He strove to ensure mission accomplishment by always doing the right thing, at the right time, for the right reasons. Upon retirement from the U.S. Army, Jon dedicated his life to assist his fellow man in confronting and dealing with PTSD. He challenged the Veterans Administration and Veterans’ organizations to provide the services they proclaimed was their purpose. He worked to raise funds to support veterans and the Marine Corps Law Enforcement Foundation, to provide scholarships to the future leaders of our great country, the children of fallen Marines, Federal Law Enforcement, and Philadelphia police officers.

To know Jon, was to love him. His low key, love of life attitude, coupled with his great sense of humor, humility and his dedication to his brothers who wear or have worn the cloth of this great nation, identify him as an individual we should all try to emulate.

The authors set the stage for Jon’s military service and accomplishments by including historical data about Vietnam, the politics of the war, and the background and functioning of Special Forces. With all this as a backdrop, the authors weave in Jon’s rough childhood, heroics in battle, horrific treatment as a POW, ending with his struggle with PTSD and how he devoted his time to helping others. Jon fought right to the end as he battled cancer. He left an indelible mark on everyone he met. I miss him as he was truly My Brother.

H.C. “Barney” Barnum Jr
Colonel of Marines (Ret.)
Medal of Honor Recipient

Jon Cavaiani, Medal of Honor, Vietnam War

Flag Ceremony to Honor Jon R. Cavaiani

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Jon Cavaiani circa 1970

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SGM Cavaiani (MOH), his wife Barb, and John Siegfried: MCLEF Gala October 2010 Philly

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President Ford and Staff Sergeant (MOH) Cavaiani

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SSG Jon Cavaiani reporting to President John F. Kennedy on 12 December 1974 after being awarded the Congressional Medal of Honor.

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Four Medal of Honor Recipients at MCLEF Gala PHILADELPHIA. L-R. Brian Thacker USA, CSM Bob Patterson, Jon Cavaiani, and Colonel Barney Barnum, USMC

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Jon Cavaiani in Vietnam with his CAR-15

Memorial Portrait

Memorial portrait of SGM Jon R, Cavaiani (MOH)

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Sergeant Major Jon Cavaiani leading thousands of veterans saluting the Flag at Barb Borowiec’s Annual Harley Davidson’s Freedom ride from Barb’s dealership in Collingswood, NJ to McGuire Joint Base New Jersey 2009

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Reunited in Philadelphia with an old friend, Jim Shorten,, who was Jon’s Recon Team Leader training instructor at 0-1 Recon school. The memories and friendship lasted well beyond their experiences in Vietnam

Testimonials for A Wolf Remembered

“Jon Cavaiani was the Epitome of the Professional Soldier.”
--Colonel Roger Donlon USA (Ret). Medal of Honor Recipient

“Jon Cavaiani became a friend I made later in life.  A hero that had an unbelievable compassionate side.  I was honored when Jon asked me to join him, as his guest at a Medal of Honor conference in Birmingham Alabama.  After two days of golf, entertainment, and a dinner with the other recipients in attendance Jon informed me ‘NOW IT GETS SERIOUS.’  We are going to a middle school for a speech from Jon to over four hundred students. Jon explained he had given this speech many times and as uncomfortable as he felt, he always allowed questions to follow his speech, and he had packaged answers.  Upon the completion of the speech, Jon proceeded to the questions.  ‘Have you ever killed anyone?’ SON IN WAR MANY BAD THINGS HAPPEN, #2 ‘when wounded how did you keep your mental wellbeing?’ GOOD QUESTION SAID JON, YOU MUST PUT YOUR MIND IN A DIFFERENT PLACE AWAY FROM YOUR CURRENT HORRIBLE SITUATION.  After another two or three less than stellar questions from the so- called cool kids on the front row, using his intuitiveness and training, scanning the audience Jon noticed a rather rotund young man sitting at the top of the bleachers, all alone with no friends.  Noticing this, Jon looked up at the top row, and asked ‘son on the top row, is there anything you would like to ask’?  Standing up and asking very politely said: ‘Sir, could I please come down and give you a hug?’ Of course, Jon answered.  The astonished students parted like the red sea allowing the young man to pass down to where Jon was waiting.  While watching the embrace in a silent auditorium, I neglected to notice forty to fifty other students, many with tears in their eyes, patiently waiting their turn for a hug.  Affecting everyone in the building a lesson was offered by Jon, it’s not the size of someone that matters, it’s the size of their heart.  A wonderful lesson taught by a man whose sensitivity was only equaled by his bravery.  A wonderful man who will always be in the hearts of those who knew, and loved, him.”
--Harold M. West II  USMC (Ret).

“Was indeed a brother..!!We grew up in the same small town in California. We did not actually know each other at that time, but years later, we started talking about French Camp, California, and Jon said he lived close to that town for a while as a kid, and started naming names, the number of names we both knew was amazing, and it brought us even closer as brothers!!
“I admired Jon so very much for his love and kindness and willingness to help our brothers !!”
“Jon will indeed always be with us in our hearts …may God Bless him and his family!!”
--Sammy Davis SFC US Army (Ret). Medal of Honor Recipient

President John F. Kennedy used the full power of his office to expand the role of a small band of American Soldiers, the Green Berets, to address the challenges faced by the people of nations who sought personal freedom. These soldiers trained and fulfilled missions in support of the oppressed, many of whom are isolated minorities. Their actions have had a significant impact on world affairs.
Jon Cavaiani was one of the few who willingly took on this role on behalf of the United States. He did so in a manner that was revealed in his genuine care for people and his willingness to go to bat for “the little guy” – whether that was indigenous people or other soldiers in need of a mentor and a guide – leadership and training.
His bravery is unquestionable. His tenacity, if matched by any, is matched by few. His strength of character enabled him to survive harrowing combat and abuse as a POW and later extend his life in service of others as fought PTS and the devastating effects of agent orange. And his faith and compassion empowered him to forgive those against whom he had fought, those who had abused him while in prison, and those who in later life maligned him out of jealousy.
A Wolf Remembered presents a compelling glimpse into the life of Medal of Honor recipient Jon R. Cavaiani a true American hero and gentleman of unsurpassed quality.
----James Shields, Former Green Beret

By reading JON ROBERT CAVAIANI A WOLF REMEMBERED the reader will get a glimpse into the life of an extraordinary human being who overcame extraordinary challenges to accomplish extraordinary feats. Jon started his life in the US as a boy from England, who was adopted by a farmer in a small California farming community. Believing in the United States and the dream of freedom for all he enlisted in the Army, and served in combat as a Green Beret with Special Forces. For his valiant efforts, he was awarded the highest medal for combat--The Congressional Medal Of Honor. Amazingly, after surviving abuse as a POW, he lived to serve the forgotten, the underdogs, and the under-served back home, while fighting personal battles with PTS and Agent Orange induced blood cancer.
I recommend this book highly to all who want to read about true American heroes. To me, Jon is a hero who lived an amazing life of service. I am proud to be able to call Jon a brother and a friend.
----Pete Laurence, 5th Special forces Group, Vietnam Veteran

 

" I attribute my life to him," said Larry Page, a former Special Forces radio operator, who was evacuated from Hickory Hill 04 June 1971.